Orgasm Answers

Is it possible to have more than one orgasm?

Yes! Multiple orgasms refer to orgasms that happen one after another, sometimes only seconds apart. Multiple orgasms can happen with a partner, alone, and sometimes sex toys might be involved. For many people, stimulating sensitive areas like the clitoris or penis immediately after orgasm can feel uncomfortable because those spots become very sensitive. If you're interested in trying to have multiple orgasms, take a short break to let your body rest. During this time, you or your partner can kiss, touch, talk, or do whatever feels good. When you’re ready, you can resume stimulation and try for another orgasm. Remember, it's completely normal if someone can't or hasn’t experienced multiple orgasms.

Why can I orgasm when masturbating, but not when having intercourse with my partner?

There are many ways people can have sex, and it doesn’t have to be limited to penetration. Penetration often stimulates sensitive areas indirectly, like the clitoris through the vaginal wall, but many people need direct stimulation of those areas to reach orgasm. This might mean stimulating the clitoris, penis, or other sensitive parts before or during penetration. You can use your hand or guide your partner’s hand to help. Many people enjoy other forms of sexual activity, such as oral sex or manual stimulation, and appreciate direct attention to sensitive areas like the clitoris or penis. Open communication with your partner about what feels good is key! Be patient and give each other feedback about where and how you like to be touched.